Life has felt so good lately. Not perfect, but pretty good. I’m walking into a season of wholeness and hope, and I’m just so excited about it.
I’m leaving a time of religious trauma behind. It feels wonderful. I feel free. I finally feel truly loved and whole just as I am. Just as I always was.
It’s taken me a while to get here. I just couldn’t see my self worth when I thought that deep down, I was born wretched. It affected so much of what I did. One of my greatest regrets is how I shared my religious thoughts on this blog when I was tied up in this wrong way of thinking…I sincerely apology. If you’d like to read my deconstruction story, you can click here.
But as my husband likes to say, “You don’t know what you don’t know.” I really was doing what I thought was right, and I’m not going to fault myself for it.
Women already have so much baggage and expectations thrown at them as it is in this culture we live in, and here I was, adding to it with harmful religious talk.
So, I’ve been learning to love myself over the past year or so, and I have made great strides in my thought life.
When I wake up in the morning, I am so excited to just see what I will experience as Nicole today, instead of reminding myself to be “dead to self.”
It’s exhilarating.
I’ve discovered that self care isn’t bad, and is actually very needful. I am worth it, and so are you!
I’ve also learned that when given the choice, I still want to be helpful to others. I love beautiful things, and want to create a beautiful life for my family.
I love my life and myself.
It’s amazing!
One major change in my thought life is the mental reaction I have when treated poorly. I used to try to suck it up, and remember that “I’m actually worse than they think I am.”
Wow! How is this for negative self talk?
Now I respect myself and have more boundaries. While no, I’m not perfect, I am a human being that matters. I feel deeply that I am important and loved.
And friends, so are you. If you ever need to talk about your feelings surrounding this topic, I’m willing to be a listening ear. Living in a place of negativity is hard. Believe me, I know!
Women, we are pretty wonderful. We have the gifts of creativity and intuition and can change the world with our insight and knowledge. We can walk in femininity in such a way that our gifts shine if we accept and love ourselves.
Thanks so much for stopping by today, friends!